Life
Why do so many gay porn stars die before the age of 30?
A recent trend has seen many gay adult performers passing away just before or just after hitting 30. Why is such a sexy industry also
Cringe Culture – Be Seen Without Shame!
I recently had a reaction that left me pondering and questioning my affirming values. A 19-year-old family friend who identifies as queer asked me to
Berlin Report: Spring things, gym and going out
For a city known by its party-hard culture and uninhibited attitude toward every kind of vice and indulgence, Berlin is fittingly prone to long-lasting hangovers.
Is Kink in the Bedroom the Same as Kink in a Relationship?
First, let’s define kink, as I cringe at the term. It’s a mainstream word often used to describe sexual interests that perhaps belong to fewer
Feeling Alone?
Isolation has a particular psychological texture within the rainbow communities, shaped by both personal experience and broader social history. For some, disconnection is not simply
Is dating app violence a new thing or a modern take on history?
The rise of attacks on men who have sex with men facilitated through dating apps reflects a disturbing intersection between historical stigma, evolving technology and
My first Mardi Gras was ecstatic!
Content note: This piece contains queer and fat phobic dialogue and a short reference to historical self-harm. I’m going to preface this story/article/musing/incoherent ramble by
Poem: Happy by Hannah Hamilton
Once upon a time, you were a child. Your understanding of the term 'gay' mimics that of a Victorian aristocrat: happy, gleeful, cheerful, joyous. That
Midlife in a Relationship
Midlife often arrives quietly. There may be no dramatic announcement, just subtle shifts. The body feels different. Time feels more finite. Relationships, too, begin to
The science of Mardi Gras
The Sydney Mardi Gras Parade might just look like a glittery wonderland, but underneath, it’s a full‑scale demonstration of physics, physiology and social neuroscience in



